tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-62815756101001193832024-03-12T22:48:25.762-05:00In RepairLife, Student Ministry, The Next GenerationDavid Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.comBlogger241125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-10711125290954693712014-08-18T07:25:00.002-05:002014-08-18T07:25:28.877-05:00NxtGen JournalWe're up and moving!<br />
<br />
Check out this great / honest post by Wayne Rice on launching and leading generational ministry at his church in San Diego.<br />
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Very interesting perspective!<br />
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http://nxtgenjournal.com/David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-33876702857008299022014-08-08T09:05:00.001-05:002014-08-08T09:06:17.436-05:00Announcing NxtGen Journal<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FBTE7I5ytwE/U-TYALDGatI/AAAAAAAAAUk/_l-P8XUBaQU/s1600/Screen+Shot+2014-08-08+at+8.59.06+AM.png" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-FBTE7I5ytwE/U-TYALDGatI/AAAAAAAAAUk/_l-P8XUBaQU/s1600/Screen+Shot+2014-08-08+at+8.59.06+AM.png" height="179" width="320" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">Next week NxtGen Journal will officially launch.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Over the last months I've been pretty inconsistent (ok, consistently non existent) writing here.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">NxtGen Journal will include myself and other practitioners in younger generation ministry. I'll write about 2/3 of the time and other people much smarter than me will fill in the gaps. We'll be posting at least 1 time a week.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">As always our hope will be to provide fresh, authentic content written from the perspective of common strugglers. The focus will be on the value of thinking through next generation ministry from a holistic approach.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">98% of the content will be new with a few key posts being transferred from here. Content on Inrepair will continue to live here.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">To learn more you can check out <a href="http://nxtgenjournal.com/" target="_blank">nxtgenjournal.com</a> and join the conversation. You can also follow us at @nxtgenjournal on twitter.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We hope to have great collaboration and learning as we seek to lead the next generation well.</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-24719473679107268822014-02-15T11:07:00.002-06:002014-02-15T11:07:30.761-06:00A Ragamuffin Thought<br />
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<span style="font-family: Cambria;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i>“The church
is not a museum for saints but a hospital for sinners”<o:p></o:p></i></span></span><br />
<br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"><span style="font-size: large;"><i>The Good
News means we can stop lying to ourselves. The sweet sound of amazing grace saves us from the necessity
of self-deception. It keeps us
from denying that though Christ was victorious, the battle with lust, greed and
pride still rages within us.</i></span><span style="font-size: 16pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Cambria;"><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></span>
<span style="font-family: Cambria; font-size: large;">Manning</span><br />
<!--EndFragment-->David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-77643598628039592642014-02-12T09:27:00.000-06:002014-02-12T09:27:03.849-06:00Remember That New Year Resolution?<span style="font-size: large;">How's that going for you?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Well, if you're not struggling you will, especially if your focus and heart for 2014 is spiritual in nature.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Jonathan Edwards is well known for may writings but there's one list that stands above the rest. He created a list of 70, yes 70 resolutions. His heart and passion to live for the glory of God was greater than I can imagine which came out in this list.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Edward's desire to keep this list wasn't out of human effort or ego but out of a humble Christ dependent desire to live for God. His statement at the beginning of the resolutions makes this clear.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;"><i>Being sensible that I am unable to do any thing without God’s help, I do
humbly entreat him, by his grace, to enable me to keep these
Resolutions, so far as they are agreeable to his will, for Christ’s
sake.</i></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">You can find all 70 resolutions here.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://www.churchplantmedia.com/blog/post/70-resolutions-of-jonathan-edwards" target="_blank">Resolutions of Jonathan Edwards</a></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">But as you would might imagine, like us, he struggled to keep his resolutions. (well, there were 70)</span><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<i><span style="font-size: large;">It seemed yesterday, the day before, and Saturday, that I should always
retain the same resolutions to the same height. But alas! how soon do I
decay! O how weak, how infirm, how unable to do anything of myself! What
a poor inconsistent being! What a miserable wretch, without the
assistance of the Spirit of God! While I stand, I am ready to think that
I stand by my own strength, and upon my own legs; and I am ready to
triumph over my spiritual enemies, as if it were I myself that caused
them to flee: — when alas! I am but a poor infant, upheld by Jesus
Christ; who holds me up, and gives me liberty to smile to see my enemies
flee, when he drives them before me. And so I laugh, as though I myself
did it, when it is only Jesus Christ leads me along, and fights himself
against my enemies. And now the Lord has a little left me, how weak do I
find myself! O let it teach me to depend less on myself, to be more
humble, and to give more of the praise of my ability to Jesus Christ!
(January 15, 1722)</span></i><br />
<br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><i>"</i>What a poor inconsistent being!"</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">I'm super thankful for God's grace freely given. You?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Now, maybe I can start over...</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-39125911903376760162014-01-01T10:13:00.001-06:002014-01-01T10:31:02.522-06:00I Dare You…<span style="font-size: large;">My pastor in Atlanta would always say, "attempt something so great for God that it's doomed to failure unless God be in it".</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">I'm both inspired and afraid of that statement. Here's the beauty, when God leads he provides the power and receives the recognition. I'm ok with that.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">So in 2014 I resolve to dream bigger, pray more passionately, collaborate with others and step out in faith. I long to seek the heart of God and recklessly obey where he leads, for His glory. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Will you join me?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">I dare you.</span><br />
<br />
<br />David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-72042499041777561172013-12-25T09:19:00.002-06:002013-12-25T09:19:32.301-06:00Christmas is Good News<span style="font-size: large;">Good tidings of great joy!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<i><span style="font-size: large;">But when the fullness of time had come, God sent forth his Son, born of woman, born under the law, </span><span style="font-size: large;">to redeem those who were under the law, so that we might receive adoption as sons. And because you are sons, God has sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, crying, “Abba! Father!” So you are no longer a slave, but a son, and if a son, then an heir through God. </span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<span style="font-size: large;">Merry Christmas!</span><br />
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-19556371181181375532013-12-22T13:57:00.000-06:002013-12-23T09:39:29.570-06:002000 Years Ago - A Baby - So What?<div class="post-content clear-fix">
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<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Z22B_DXndMg/UrdAAcPIvJI/AAAAAAAAATw/ci4gXQ3dQzM/s1600/creche.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Z22B_DXndMg/UrdAAcPIvJI/AAAAAAAAATw/ci4gXQ3dQzM/s320/creche.jpg" width="256" /></a><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Advent - "Coming"</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Many focus and celebrate the beautiful truth that Christ came to us, born in a small town called Bethlehem. Others correctly emphasize a time in the future He is coming again.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Christ has come! Christ is coming again!</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">There's another nuance of the Advent season many forget. For me one of the most beautiful pictures of Christmas is the simple truth that Christ is the One who comes to sinners like me...every day. I need to be reminded that his transforming presence is available through His Spirit in my life and the lives of those around me.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Walt Mueller posted this quote from James Montgomery Boice this morning. It reminds us that what Jesus did 2000 years ago has profound benefit for us today.</span><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"></span></i><br />
<a name='more'></a><i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<i><span style="font-size: large;">If the story were a fable or even an event that merely
had happened 2,000 years ago (or even 100 years ago) and then ended, it
would have no hold upon us. What does it really matter that somebody
died long ago in a far-off land? </span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<span style="font-size: large;"><i>I have my problems. </i><i>You have your
problems. So what? </i></span></div>
<div class="post-entry">
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<i><span style="font-size: large;">But if the One who came then still comes, if He
comes to the individual through His Spirit to bring the results of the
salvation He accomplished 2,000 years ago to where you and I stand and
act now, then this story lives and enables us to live also.</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span></i>
<span style="font-size: large;">So as Christmas quickly approaches remember the Bethlehem story but also take moments to meditate on the beautiful truth that Christ is present today. What Jesus did in his life, death and resurrection has profound power in our lives today. That's the Christmas gospel.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">He meets you, loves you and transforms you.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Advent Peace</span></div>
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-48714183061445200082013-12-18T14:01:00.000-06:002013-12-19T09:12:32.081-06:00KIds - Show Up! Sit Down! Shut Up!<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<span style="font-size: large;">In the modern American church kids are often told to
"show up, sit down and shut up".</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">That's harsh and outrageous! Or is it?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Well, of course those words would never be said out loud or
posted on a sign in the student ministry area. But let's face it, that attitude
is projected by the way churches form their sermons, sing songs, do
announcements, and create budgets. Much of what happens in church screams to
kids "this isn't for you!"</span></div>
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<br />
<a name='more'></a><br /></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I know most churches really do want kids to show up, but
why? Is it out of a true concern for the next generation?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If I've heard it once I've heard it a thousand times,
"if we can get the kids, we can get their parents.” It's true that many
families choose a church based on how they feel about the children and youth
ministries. And don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with reaching and
deepening people of all ages, but should getting the parents to church be the
motive for ministering to the next generation?</span></div>
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<br />
<span style="font-size: large;">There has to be an alternative perspective.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">In his ministry Jesus set the tone of compassion and
hospitality towards kids. In a culture that oozed a "shut up and sit
down" ethos he spoke shocking words and displayed affection for children
very different from the status quo.
In Matthew, he sets the example for those around him:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i>“Then children were brought to him that he might lay his
hands on them and pray. The disciples rebuked the people, but Jesus said, “Let
the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the
kingdom of heaven.” And he laid his hands on them and went away.”</i> (Matthew
19:13-15 ESV)</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Jesus had an unusual soft spot in his heart for kids. He
received them, prayed for them, used them as an example and hugged them. For
Jesus’ ministry to children and youth was simply about loving children and
youth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">My hope and prayer is that churches across our country would
learn what it means to be more hospitable to all who walk through the doors,
especially kids. There is no doubt there is a greater number of the next
generation leaving the church but maybe that's not the entire story. My friend
Steve says that the problem isn't kids leaving the church, it's the church
leaving kids. Something has to change.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Last spring I was shown this clip of how it might look for a
church to truly embrace the next generation. It's a powerful example of what
the church could and should be to reflect the heart of Jesus.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What words would you use to describe this clip? Messy?
Chaotic? Raw? Yes, but also hospitable, safe, loving and compassionate.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So church, let's think about what it means to become more
hospitable towards the next generation. Kids need to experience a church that's
for them, AND the church is in desperate need to learn from the faith and
enthusiasm of kids. If we do this, Jesus will be honored and the church will be
strengthened. </span></div>
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-51618770633558812852013-12-08T09:36:00.002-06:002013-12-08T09:43:40.936-06:00This Kind of Faith<!--StartFragment-->
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span lang="en-US">Hebrews 10:34</span> (ESV)
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: Arial; font-weight: bold;"><sup>34 </sup></span>For you had compassion on those in prison, and you joyfully accepted the plundering of your property, since you knew that you yourselves had a better possession and an abiding one.
</span></div>
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Been thinking about this for 3 days. How does one obtain this kind of faith?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">JOYFULLY accepting… Really?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">Is it possible to trust God's goodness for the future this way?</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-75406178592912516262013-10-17T09:06:00.000-05:002013-12-19T08:56:51.101-06:00Questions From A Ragamuffin<div style="text-align: left;">
<span style="font-size: large;">I've been slowly working my way through "Ragamuffin Gospel". This morning I had to take some extra time to reflect and pray through these questions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What do you think?</span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; border-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Palatino, Georgia, serif; line-height: 22px; text-align: center;"><i>Do you live each day in the blessed assurance that you have been saved by the unique grace of our Lord Jesus Christ? After falling flat on your face, are you still firmly convinced that the fundamental structure of reality is not works but grace? Are you moody and melancholy because you are still striving for the perfection that comes from your own efforts and not from faith in Jesus Christ? Are you shocked and horrified when you fail? Are you really aware that you don’t have to change, grow, or be good to be loved?</i></span></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="border-collapse: separate; border-spacing: 0px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Palatino, Georgia, serif; line-height: 22px; text-align: center;"><i>Brennan Manning</i></span></span></span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-4671686110563914062013-10-03T13:31:00.002-05:002013-12-19T08:58:29.047-06:00Pre - Convention Pep Talk<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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the NYWC. I long to be totally
present the next few days as I serve, listen, learn and reflect.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, here’s my pre-convention pep-talk, 3 pieces of advice
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<span style="font-size: large;">1. Listen More
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<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe you don’t have this problem, but when I’m around “my
tribe” (youthworkers) my pride and ego can flare up. It can be insidious and I need God’s grace. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It comes out by talking about all the stuff I know or have
done. Sure, God has graciously
provided me with experience (I’m old) and access to gifted leaders (I’m
blessed), but if I’m spending all my time thinking and talking about me I’ll
miss key opportunities to learn and encourage. My heart’s desire is to truly “esteem others as better than
myself”.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">By God’s grace I want to spend the next 3 days asking
questions, learning from younger men and women who are seeing ministry through
fresh eyes and encouraging anyone who crosses my path.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">There’s no doubt many who attend this year have deep pain,
tough questions and a sense of hopelessness. May this weekend be a place where we carry each other’s
burdens not compare each other’s successes. </span></div>
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and Space to Reflect</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I listen to colleagues and am challenged in my personal
life and ministry it’s important to find space to reflect. With so much going on and the circus
that is NYWC, it’s easy to jump on a plane Sunday feeling like you’ve just
taken a sip from the fire hydrant.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Different people process differently. Maybe time to reflect means getting
some time alone. Maybe it means
being intentional with your team or perhaps it means grabbing some time with a
close friend to share what you’ve been hiding in your own heart for years. There’s no better time than NOW to
reflect, share and maybe even confess.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Whatever God has for us, whether it be personal or
professional, let’s make time and space to reflect, write and share. As we do what we learn will take root
and impact deep in the future. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Ok, this goes without saying, but I want to take the
pressure off. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Of course, your church administrator knows how much money
you’re spending to go on this trip.
There are unbelievable seminars and opportunities for you to receive
great instruction and insight on how to be more effective in ministry. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So go to a lot of seminars and every main session but stay
up a little later than you normally would and sleep in a little later than you
normally do. Connect with old friends and make new
ones. Laugh a lot.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I know you will but I’m going to say it anyway, HAVE FUN!</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Again, we are unbelievably blessed to attend such a great
event where we get to be around people who do what we do. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Don’t waste your convention! Listen, reflect and have a blast in the process. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yesterday 10 youthworkers from our community connected to pray. Catholic, Baptist, non- denominational and para-church, we were all in the room together.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As an added bonus one of our local high school principles joined us at the beginning of the time to share some info about his particular school. Of course we were able to pray God's blessing on him.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We read Psalms of praise...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">We shared personal needs and prayed for one another...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">We prayed for kids and parents in our area...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">And WE did it TOGETHER...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm so thankful for each who was in the room.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Take the time, energy and risk to connect with other youthworkers in your area. It will make a difference.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i>"that they may all be one, just as you, Father, are in me, and I in you, that they also may be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent me."</i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i> </i>Jesus</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-10724002666396757732013-09-03T10:11:00.001-05:002013-09-03T16:29:52.919-05:00Who's The Real Youth Pastor?<span style="font-size: large;">I have this dream. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I dream our small group leaders would see themselves as youth pastors. I've also hoped that students and parents would see their small group leaders as their primary pastor. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">For far too long our churches have leaned too heavily on the "professional pastor". At the end of the day it's not about the paid youth worker but the host of volunteers God uses.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So what do "paid" youth workers do???</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-size: large;">"Equip God's people for works of service"</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, when I saw his fb post from one of our key volunteer leaders a little tear welled up in my eye...</span><br />
<span class="userContent" data-ft="{"tn":"K"}"><span style="font-size: large;"><i><br /></i></span></span>
<i style="font-size: x-large;">"Getting
ready to launch into a crazy week for work -- Detroit area (via ORD)
early, and San Antonio later in the week. But what is really on my mind
this morning are students at IBC. First day back at school for most.
I'm excited for the newly minted Junior class, and thoughtful how we can
grow together this year. Praying for them and for the host of teachers
and administrators that also are back into life investment this week!"</i><br />
<i style="font-size: x-large;"><br /></i>
<span style="font-size: large;">This is what relational ministry is all about! Leaders focused on and praying for the kids God has placed on their heart. It's amazing to see who God raises up to pastor kids. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Brian is a long time leader and serves sacrificially. God has and will continue to use him to love and disciple kids.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I'm so blessed to be a part.</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-27253657724878235842013-08-21T08:59:00.000-05:002013-12-19T08:59:27.843-06:00Next Gen - Do You Have Common Language?<span style="font-size: large;">In a church ministry context it's always a challenge to create and implement consistency across children, student and young adult ministries. We're trying to figure it out. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Last Saturday ALL our next gen volunteers gathered for a time of training, encouragement and inspiration. In our ministry context next gen includes...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">children's ministry, </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">middle school ministry, </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">high school ministry, </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">college ministry, </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">young adult ministry and</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">parenting ministry.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This was our first shot at having all our volunteers in the same room. To be honest, I was afraid some of our people would not understand WHY we were doing a portion of the training together. What does a 27 year old young adult small group leader have in common with a volunteer who rocks babies? </span><span style="font-size: large;">We aren't finished with our debrief but so far the response has been very positive. Everyone loved knowing their a part of a bigger story and moving to a common goal. The enthusiasm was and is incredible.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">One of the positive results of moving to a next gen model has been the common language and heart that has emerged from our next gen staff. For example, we have a list of guiding principles we developed to help us stay aligned with what's important. </span><br />
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Because every age group benefits from exposure to other generations,</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">we value thoughtful opportunities for <span style="background-color: silver;">intergenerational</span> connections.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Because true life change happens primarily in the context of relationship,</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">we value <span style="background-color: silver;">life on life</span> <span style="background-color: silver;">ministry</span> driven by loving connection.</span></i></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: large;"><i>Because Jesus revealed moralism cannot save us,<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: large;"><i>we value teaching that centers on the transforming <span style="background-color: silver;">gospel of grace.<o:p></o:p></span></i></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Because God’s Word is living and active,</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">we value <span style="background-color: silver;">Biblical Truth</span> that sets us free.</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Because growing in Christ results in compassion for others,</span></i></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">we value equipping children, youth and adults to <span style="background-color: silver;">serve</span> our Body and the world.</span></i></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: large;"><i>Because a vibrant relationship with God is more often caught than taught,<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-size: large;"><i>we value leadership that models an <span style="background-color: silver;">authentic</span> walk with Jesus.<o:p></o:p></i></span></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Because parents have a major role in the discipleship of their kids,</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">By the way, if you're a next gen or family pastor / director check out NYWC this year. There's a 2 day round table forum for people who lead ministry broader than student ministry. I'll be in San Diego and Nashville to be a part. I'm super excited to grow and learn from like minded people who are providing this kind of overarching leadership.</span></div>
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-67699243461700011882013-08-14T07:50:00.000-05:002013-12-30T09:28:53.112-06:00Training All Next Gen Leaders Together? <span style="font-size: large;">What!?! </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Student Ministry and Children's Ministry actually working together? That's kind of like the lion and the lamb hanging together.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Not just student ministry and children's ministry, this Saturday all of the leaders from children's, student, college and young adult's ministries are joining together for a day of training.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Of course there is a huge difference between a volunteer who rocks a baby and a volunteer who leads a small group of emerging adults. Of course we'll have appropriate training for specific age groups but we're super excited to have all our next gen leaders in the same room.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">1) We want each leader to know that they're a part of a BIGGER story.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When your a 4th grade boy's small group leader it's hard to believe you're having any spiritual influence at all. We want every volunteer, no matter their role, to understand that their faithful ministry has an echoing effect in the lives of the next generation. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here's a story we're telling. Years ago Peter was a 4th grade boys Sunday school teacher. He had a kid in that SS class who later became a middle school intern. In that middle school youth group there was MS school (now a college student) who is a middle school life group leader. In that middle school life group is a student who helps serve in our children's ministry.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">See the ripple effect? Peter isn't perfect but he has spent years serving kids. The result? An incredible echo effect that goes way beyond what he would have ever imagined. He didn't know it but he was a part of a story that was bigger than he thought.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Our next gen ministry is built upon the strength of life on life small groups. All small group leaders will be in the room to hear us talk about the priority and theology of relational ministry. We've uncovered 4 key principles that apply to all our age groups.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Of course we're going to let each age group apply these principles appropriately, but how cool to know that each group leader (k-young adults) will have a common understanding and and language for life on life ministry and why that's our approach. As students get older our hope is that there will be greater consistency in how our small groups operate.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">In addition to our approach to small groups we also have guiding principles for all next gen ministries. Creating alignment through all our ministries results in encouragement for parents and assuring our core principles are being implemented.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">By the way, having our young adult ministry engaged with the rest of our next gen ministry is golden. It's almost like stepping into a time machine to see how the future will look. Interacting with our young adult pastor informs our children ministry, student ministry and college ministry about true spiritual formation.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We believe a large part of our church's calling is to "declare God's greatness to the next generation, his might to all who are to come". From birth to launching people into young adulthood, we're super excited to share God's heart and priority for kids and young adults.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We're also looking forward to sharing with all our volunteers the priority of the their heart. The effectiveness of ministry this school year is somehow connected with each leader's connecting to Jesus. He is the focus but he's also the fuel.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yes, fall is my favorite time of the year. College football, cooling temperatures and the changing colors are all things that make me feel like a small boy on Christmas morning. I love fall.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />I feel the same way about student ministry. It's one of the busiest times of the year but it's one of my favorites. From reconnecting with adult leaders to thinking about students reconnecting with friends at school. The fall season is the March Madness or Tour de France of student ministry. (Ok, for all you soccer peeps the World Cup)</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />As I'm thinking about all we've done to prepare and all we will continue to do, here are some broad stroke meanderings about student ministry in fall.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Adult Leaders Get the Spotlight</span></span><br />
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<a name='more'></a><span style="font-size: large;"><br />Our ministry lives and dies based on adult leaders living lives with kids. Sure we try to have good talks and fun events, but we believe that most life change happens when someone who loves Jesus takes the time to pray for and spend time with students.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />It seems it's the way Jesus did ministry. He walked up to people and said, "follow me". In other words, live life with me. Go where I go and do what I do. Granted, we don't require our leaders to allow 7th grade boys to live in their home, but you get the point. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />In mid August we took a Saturday afternoon / evening to pull our adults together for an interactive time of training, inspiration and fun. Amongst other topics we talked about how prayer in the foundation of an effective small group and relationship for relationship's sake is what student ministry is all about. We told them that many times adult mentors provide watershed moments in the lives of kids. Then we did what any good Texan would do, ate some barbecue together. It was a great day.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />We will continue to shepherd and train our leaders throughout the school year, but that Saturday afternoon was a great start. We're blessed with some super duper adults.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Live Your Life, Love Your Friends, Tell Your Story</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />Years ago some of my friends in Georgia came up with this simple strategy to help students think through living missionally on their campuses. </span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />We've been unpacking a key thought from Matthew's description of Jesus when he saw hurting people.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large; font-style: italic;">36 When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />We've been asking our students questions like....</span><br />
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<li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">when you see students who are different than you, are you filled with judgment or compassion?</span></li>
<li style="margin: 0px; outline: none; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">what are practical ways you can show love to your friends on your campus?</span></li>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Last Monday they started school. When they walked into their lunchroom I hope they thought about Jesus seeing the crowds and being filled with compassion. I hope they have the ability (by God's grace) to SEE beyond the surface of their peers who are difficult to love.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />Students are no different than adults, left to themselves they only see their own hurts and needs, but the gospel gives them the ability to look beyond themselves to the needs of others. More than anyone else, students have the greatest potential to live out the gospel to students.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><br />So I'm curious, what is your favorite season, personally and from a ministry perspective. Fall has to be close to the top of the list....right?</span></div>
David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-50287084169893157852013-08-02T13:45:00.005-05:002013-08-02T13:45:52.597-05:00Noon Prayer<br />
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Lord, make us instruments of your peace. <br />
Where there is hatred, let us sow love; <br />
where there is injury, pardon; <br />
where there is discord, union; <br />
where there is doubt, faith; <br />
where there is despair, hope; <br />
where there is darkness, light; <br />
where there is sadness, joy. <br />
Grant that we may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; <br />
to be understood as to understand;<br />
to be loved as to love. <br />
For it is in giving that we receive; <br />
it is in pardoning that we are pardoned; <br />
and it is in dying that we are born to eternal life. Amen.</i></span><br />
David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-92171923416294573862013-07-31T09:13:00.001-05:002013-12-23T09:43:38.867-06:00Short Term Mission Trip - A Horrible Thing to Waste<!--[if gte mso 9]><xml>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you do, you know the incredible work
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receiving ministry. Kids can make a huge impact across the street and around the world.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Helping students understand the centrality of Jesus in
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<span style="font-size: large;">The goal of all mission is the
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<span style="font-size: large;">None of these will produce fruit that remains if Jesus isn’t
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<span style="font-size: large;">What a great excuse to raise the frequency and intensity of their time in the Word and prayer.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Jesus says, “as you’ve done it unto the least of these,
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<span style="font-size: large;">In a strange way not only is Jesus the model and fuel for
our mission; he’s also the recipient of our service. As our students are preparing to serve orphans or
handicapped people, helping them understand that as they look in the face of a
child, they are looking into the face of Jesus is powerful motivation to prepare
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<span style="font-size: large;">God has called us to share the gospel not only in word but also in deed. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">On a trip I recently helped lead, the issues of my heart began
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hearts and minds of students. Encouraging to them to pay attention to their heart may help
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<span style="font-size: large;">On the other side of self-centeredness is deep community. As students take their eyes off
themselves they begin to see others differently. Some of the deepest most authentic community I’ve experienced has begun
on short-term mission trips. </span></div>
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isn't surprising is it? When students play together, work together and pray together their
hearts become connected. </span></div>
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who leads our trips, has great traditions on every trip. One that I particularly love is their
challenge for students to find their “wonder moment” of the day. In other words, asking students
to look for God’s work throughout the day. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe a student notices another student being the hands and
feet of Jesus, maybe a student discovers something fresh in the Word, or maybe
a student sees something incredible in nature. There are all kinds of examples
of how students may see the greatness of God. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Around a circle at night students are asked to share the
“wonder moment." As the group
closes in prayer it becomes natural to praise God for his grace and work
throughout the day.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">By the way, you should check out Wonder Voyage.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://www.wondervoyage.com/" target="_blank">http://www.wondervoyage.com/</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">For me “post trip” really begins on the mission trip
itself. If you wait until you get
home to debrief and apply what you’ve experienced and learned it will be too
late. One of the sayings around
the student ministry at my home church is simple but important; “mission isn’t
a trip, it’s your life." </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Reminding students that serving their friends at their high
school is just as important as serving orphans in Honduras is vital. God does work in the hearts of students
on these trips and it’s amazing how it affects their view of everyday
life. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">After one trip we had a student research how to feed the
homeless and hungry in the downtown Dallas. The next thing I know she’s at my house to get my credit
card so she could buy supplies to work with an organization by making
sandwiches and distribute them for lunch.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The next morning, 30 students showed up at the church to make
sandwiches. As God works in the
hearts of people it’s amazing how they respond. Sometimes we just need to hand them the church credit card
and get out of the way. (Just make
sure it’s the church credit card).</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I love mission trips for kids. There is no doubt the world has been impacted for the Kingdom where kids have served this summer. I just want to make sure I'm faithful to maximize the potential and think holistically about our ministry.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If your ministry is going well it's good and natural for students to trust the adults around them. As trust is developed sometimes they'll share struggles and failures with a small group leader or a pastor that they might not share with their parents.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So what do we do with that information? </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Should we tell their parents EVERYTHING?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Do we tell parents NOTHING?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Last week some smart people chimed in with some thoughts and ideas worth considering.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><a href="http://david-inrepair.blogspot.com/2013/07/should-you-tell-parents.html" target="_blank">Should You Tell The Parents?</a></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I've listened to their wisdom here's some thoughts I've been considering when faced with the question, "when should we include parents?"</span></div>
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<u><span style="font-size: large;">Some situations are black and white</span></u></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Confidentiality is important in your small group environments but it should be carefully defined. Confidentiality doesn't mean you as the leader will never tell anyone. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here are part of the guidelines for school counselors which provide a good place for discussion in student ministry.</span></div>
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<i><span style="font-size: large;">Ethically, school counselors are required to take appropriate action if
students engage in behavior that presents clear and imminent danger to
themselves and others. Legally, they're required to report known or
suspected child abuse or neglect, and they're also required to respond
to subpoenas and participate in other legal proceedings dictated by the
courts.</span></i></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It's important for small group leaders, youth workers and others to carefully explain appropriate confidentiality before a student shares. Let's not mislead or surprise kids. AND let's not hesitate to respect and honor the laws that have been put in place for the protection of students.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">In our ministry we have a clear rule that if you a student shares their intention to </span><i><span style="font-size: large;">engage in behavior that presents clear and imminent danger to themselves and others </span></i><span style="font-size: large;">you immediately report the issue to a student ministry pastor. Our pastors then take the appropriate action with the authorities or set up a plan to approach the parents.</span></div>
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<u><span style="font-size: large;">Most situations are very grey</span></u></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is where it gets super difficult.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">How old is the student?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Do their parents attend church?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What's your relationship with the parents?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">These are all questions that must be taken into consideration. As a father I genuinely hope my kids shared struggles with their small group leaders they didn't want to share with me. As they get older and become more independent it's healthy and vital for them to depend on other adult relationships for counsel wisdom and even discipline. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The truth is I TRUSTED their leaders and believed they would give great counsel and bring me into the loop if necessary.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here are some examples of struggles I would consider grey...</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Whether or not to share information with parents in grey areas should be addressed as a team and viewed from as many angles as possible. I have to tell you, making these kinds of calls are some of the most difficult in student ministry. We need God's wisdom to shepherd kids and their families through these kinds of issues.</span></div>
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<u><span style="font-size: large;">Some situations point to a life pattern</span></u></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What if a student shares for the 10th time an area of failure? There's a limit to the help we can give kids without the influence and discipline of the parents. Many times students need professional counseling. Sometimes they need greater accountability in the home. Whatever the case youth workers should look for life patterns to see what the bigger picture is.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here's an example. If a junior student clicks on a pornographic website once and isn't developing an addiction in this area, it may be most beneficial to keep that between you and the student. If the same junior has a possible sex addiction the parents must be approached.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If a student is on an obvious trajectory for at risk behavior it is always best to bring parents into the loop.</span></div>
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<u><span style="font-size: large;">Parents are not the enemy</span></u></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Well, most the time. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">If we lived in a perfect world kids would be totally open with their parents about every situation. Guess what, we don't live in that world. Kids and parents are broken and it's in that brokenness that we should always remember our role in turning the heart of the kids back to their parents.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It's a challenge to balance the ideal with providing a safe place for students to share without fear that every leader will run to the parents every time a challenge is shared. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As youth workers we are one of many voices in the life of kids. Our role is to partner with parents not become the lone ranger. We have to remember that open communication with parents is the ideal and should be our desire as it is reasonably possible. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><u>When You Have To Tell The Parents</u></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, what if you come to the conclusion that parents should be brought into the conversation? Sharing with a student that their parents are going to be informed can be one of the one difficult conversation a youth worker can have with a student. To the student it can feel there is a break of trust and confidentiality.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">As far as I can remember I've never gone to parents without telling the student what I was doing first. It's a good idea to give kids as much control in how the parents will be informed as you can.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Over the years here are 3 options I've given to students when it relates to sharing sensitive news with their parents.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">1. The student tells their parents</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This option is followed with "after you've spoken to them please ask them to call me". There must be a time limit to the student speaking to their parents. Usually I'll give them a day or two. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">2. You and the student go together and talk to the parents</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This also works well but to be honest option one is a little better. This option should definitely be used if you suspect the parents response to the information may be inappropriate.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">3. You speak to your parents</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">This is the last option. If the kid is unwilling to share what's going on then as the leaders we have no other option than to bring the parents into the loop. I would much more prefer for the student to take responsibility and share themselves but sometimes this becomes necessary.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Kids are hurting and need safe environments to share. Let's face it the more healthy your ministry the more you'll hear challenging stories from students. Equipping yourself and small group leaders to think through how and when to approach parents is crucial.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">God has placed us in a unique role to provide the healing power of the gospel. May God grant us the grace to walk in wisdom as we continue to engage in difficult conversations. May grace and truth dominate our words.</span></div>
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-40370666525848761802013-07-17T08:23:00.000-05:002013-07-17T08:24:27.744-05:00Should You Tell The Parents?<span style="font-size: large;">I had a discussion with a volunteer small group leader that I have often in student ministry. It went something like this.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">"Susie (generic girl name) says she no longer believes in God, should I talk to her parents?"</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Other questions that come up are, "he tried cigarettes, should I tell his parents?" or "she's dating THAT guy, should I talk to her parents?" or "he said a bad word..."</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">You get the idea. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As we seek to disciple students and partner with parents when do we bring parents into these kinds of conversations? Our small groups are governed by principles of confidentiality but as you know that doesn't mean you never share what's going on in a kids life.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, here's the question...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When do you bring parents into the loop as it relates to "confidential" conversations with kids?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I have some ideas but wanted to hear what ya'll (I'm in Texas) have to say first.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Let's learn from one another...</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-23574592531032490702013-07-11T09:10:00.001-05:002013-07-11T09:10:53.559-05:00Is Your Summer Camp Cheesy?<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I’ve had the privilege of doing a lot of Summer Camp this year and currently I'm in Gulf Shores at my church's high school camp.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">To be really honest with you, I think camp is kind of cheesy.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Now don’t get me wrong, I love camp and believe God uses those experiences all over the country to move students towards his heart and I actually enjoy the cheesiness. As I’m staring down the barrel of our camp this weekend here are some things I’m thinking about to embrace the cheese but more importantly position our students where they’ll rub up against Jesus.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Camp should reflect your overall student ministry strategy</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">In other words, if you’re a ministry driven by adult leaders and small groups, your camp should have those opportunities. If your ministry is highly missional in nature, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to provide some missional experience at camp or at least expose students to injustices in the world. If your ministry is all about production then do that to the max. In fact, it might be better to go to Big Stuff or something that does production at the highest level.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #333333; font-family: Times New Roman;">The point is this, your camp should reflect what your priorities are in your ministry. Summer camp isn’t a stand-alone event, it’s connected to the rest of your ministry.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Work hard at having fun</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">To be honest this is a tough one for me. Fun is a high priority for my ministry, it just can’t be dependent on me to pull it off. This weekend one of our key leaders is the mc. She is absolutely hilarious and extremely fun. If you’re a fuddy dudd like me find someone who is fun and put them in charge.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">You know this already, the challenge with camp is helping students process and live out what God does at camp when they get home. What about taking the entire last session or 2 to help students process and imagine what God is going to do when they get home? Many times camp builds towards that “last night” experience. Why not have that experience earlier in the week to help students unpack what God is teaching them and helping them prepare to go home?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Students (and adults) can easily be lured into worshipping an experience instead of God. The story of what Jesus has done on our behalf must be the centerpiece of every camp no matter what the theme. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Jesus doesn’t only live at your camp location. If students come home embracing the gospel and all that means in their life then their walk with him will have been truly deepened.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, embrace the cheese and enjoy how God seems to work in a special way at our summer camps. By the way, I met Jesus at our church’s summer camp in Jekyll Island, Georgia. It will be cool to hear stories over the years of how God has worked at your camp this summer.</span></div>
David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-75627501964835675512013-07-05T08:00:00.000-05:002013-07-20T15:55:08.654-05:003 Quick Camp Thoughts - Sweat the Details AND Get Out of the Weeds<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fMOKeTQzf5Y/UdRlJATnPkI/AAAAAAAAAS4/P9MSMVkLqj4/s1147/gulfshores.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="214" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fMOKeTQzf5Y/UdRlJATnPkI/AAAAAAAAAS4/P9MSMVkLqj4/s320/gulfshores.jpg" width="320" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">We're right in the middle of final preparations for Beach Camp 2013.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">When you're responsible to get over 200 people 12 hours away there are tons of administrative details. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Busses, vans, food, production, adult leaders, communicating to parents, rules, speakers, bands, budgets, schedules, booklets, rooming assignments...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As you know this list is just the beginning.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">To pull off an effective camp you have to take care of the details. Let's be honest, youth pastors / workers are not usually known for their administrative effectiveness. It's very important we make sure all the details are accomplished. Let me say it again, SWEAT THE DETAILS.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">However, I've found that as we get closer to camp it's easy to get stuck in the weeds. Here's what I mean. Sometimes you get so overwhelmed with the details you just focus on the WHAT for the trip, not the WHY.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">What about some balance? </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here are some thoughts our team has been considering as we try to balance the vision of camp with the details of camp.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Camp is about God changing individual lives...</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As we've looked over the lists of kids who have signed up we are constantly brainstorming who isn't on the list and why. We even grab last years sign up list to compare. If we haven't heard from a kid in a while it gives a great excuse to reach out and invite them to attend. The response has been incredible.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">At the end of the day it isn't about the total number of kids at camp but each individual student and the potential of God's gospel work in their lives. We want them at camp because we believe there's something significant about taking a few days away to connect with God and one another.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Camp is about adult / student relationships...</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The student ministry philosophy where I serve is built on Godly adult leaders investing in the lives of kids. Our camp reflects this philosophy. As important as getting kids there getting the right adults is crucial. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We've also found that having key leaders at camp gives them great momentum in going into their fall small group ministry. Is there a better place to deepen relationships than camp?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><b>Camp is about God...</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">These few days in Gulf Shores are a part of the tremendous story God is telling. As our camp story reflects and contributes to God's story he is the one who receives the glory He is due. It's not about a person, church or even an experience. It's truly about God doing his transformative work in and through us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It's important to get our heads above the clouds to remember what happens at camp echoes in eternity.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So, we need to make sure we take care of all the details. Communicate well and take time to work on administration but don't forget the why of camp. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Remind yourself and others about the tremendous potential that's sitting right before you. Don't miss the forest because of all the trees.</span><br />
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David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-2982641904528254212013-06-26T10:16:00.000-05:002014-03-31T09:07:38.881-05:00Should I Wear A Speedo? - Beach Camp Modesty<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-E-02fl_haTE/UcsEsCYFUqI/AAAAAAAAASo/jIYHjl03V4s/s1600/1910s-Vintage-Swimwear.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-E-02fl_haTE/UcsEsCYFUqI/AAAAAAAAASo/jIYHjl03V4s/s320/1910s-Vintage-Swimwear.jpg" height="320" width="271" /></a><span style="font-size: large;">Recently there's been a lot of conversation around the web concerning swimwear, particularly girl's swimwear.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Here's what people are asking...</span><br />
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What is modesty?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Is a girl responsible for a guy lusting?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">What about girls lusting?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Who gets to decide what is modest dress and what isn't?</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Should I wear a speedo?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The purpose of this post isn't to argue the specifics of Biblical modesty or make a judgement about swimwear, it's simply to share where our student ministry team has landed on our bathing suit policy.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">There's no doubt scripture teaches us we should present ourselves in a way that's modest. We should praise those who want to be modest and encourage those who aren't but how does modesty relate to what we wear and who gets to decide?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">For example, a couple weeks ago I was in Amish country in Pennsylvania. Their view would be way different from Christians who grew up in south Florida. How do we find a balance that honors God?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Youth groups all over the country head to the coast for summer camp and have to make decisions about their bathing suite rules. </span><span style="font-size: large;">So as youthworkers how do we make decisions that are founded on grace and truth? How we address the bathing suite issue is important because it teaches our guys and girls about Biblical modesty which goes much deeper than the question of a one piece or two piece at camp.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">At my home church we're about to send out the packing list for our beach camp. This is where we've landed for this year's camp and yes, it could change next year.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i>Modesty is a very subjective thing. You could ask 10 different people if an
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sag and no Speedos<span style="font-family: Wingdings;">. :)</span></i></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i>This isn’t about a one piece or two piece (I’ve seen one
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<span style="font-size: large;"><i>Thank you so much for hearing our heart on this! We’re looking forward to an incredible
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yes, it would probably be easier to say "no two pieces" or to simply stay away from swimwear all together (go to the mountains). We decided to embrace the messiness and have conversations with kids if the need arises. If someone wears a swimsuit (or anything else for that matter) that is inappropriate we want to talk to them about WHAT they're wearing but also WHY they're wearing it. The WHY questions is what gets to the heart of Biblical modesty.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">By the way, this isn't a condemnation on those who have stricter rules, we could be wrong about this. In fact, I would love to hear push back and advice. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">What do you think about our swimwear "policy"? How is yours different?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We're all ears.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Oh, and just to ease your mind, I'm leaving my speedo at home this summer. Next year? We'll see.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">To learn more about what's being said about modesty check out these websites.</span><br />
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<a href="http://www.qideas.org/video/the-evolution-of-the-swimsuit.aspx" target="_blank">The Evolution of the </a><span style="color: #0000ee;"><u>Swimsuit</u></span></span><br />
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<a href="http://www.qideas.org/blog/modesty-i-dont-think-it-means-what-you-think-it-means.aspx" target="_blank">Modesty - It's Not What You Think</a></span><br />
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<a href="http://soulation.org/jonalynblog/2013/06/is-itsy-bitsy-wrong-bikinis-and-modesty.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-size: large;">Is Itsy-Bitsy Wrong?</span></a></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">What if churches in America were built ONLY on connecting people to Jesus, each other and mission?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This isn't a commentary on any church or pastor (especially my home church) BUT it seems that the "famous" churches or the churches we praise as being successful in America are built around "famous" and gifted leaders.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe if I were one of those leaders I would feel different, but it seems the body of Christ would be stronger and more effective in it's mission if there was less talk about it's church leaders and more talk about it's Head.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">??</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6281575610100119383.post-87575447113246557692013-06-12T09:55:00.000-05:002013-06-12T21:28:13.073-05:004 Reasons this Dad / Pastor is Thankful for our Student Ministry<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kK6FUeEo65E/Ubh-cvwIBCI/AAAAAAAAASQ/iV90_tsCLGY/s1600/BMHFo4nCEAALy6O.jpg_large.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kK6FUeEo65E/Ubh-cvwIBCI/AAAAAAAAASQ/iV90_tsCLGY/s320/BMHFo4nCEAALy6O.jpg_large.jpg" width="320" /><span style="font-size: large;"> </span></a><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Over the past few days I've been overwhelmed by the influence student ministry has had on my family. It's good to stop and reflect.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It's been quite a week. My 2 oldest sons drove from Georgia to be with the family for my daughter's high school graduation. Andrew, Austin, Zach and Lauren were all in Dallas as were my in-laws and parents. What an amazing time.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As a youth pastor my goal has never been to develop relationship with every kid in the youth group, that would be impossible and ineffective. My deep desire has been to insure every kid has opportunity for meaningful relationship with adults who love Jesus and love them. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As a father I'm thankful this is the heart of our student ministry.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">You see, over the last days I've been reminded of the Godly adults who have shared life with my daughter. Of course her brothers and grandparents have been there, but then there's Shelly, Brian, Lori, Scott, Alisha, Nat, Dana, Sasha, Mary Ann, Chris, Chelsea, Sylvia, Bryan, Allison, Steve, Jackie, Andrea, Mark, Jade, Javi, Jenn, Susan, Carrie and so many more. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Some of these relationships have come organically through my friendships but others have come through our student ministry's intentional desire to connect Godly adults with kids. It seems this is the way the body of Christ is supposed to function.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As I've been reflecting here are areas I'm particularly thankful for...</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A safe place for Godly council - </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As a dad I don't know everything nor do I need to know everything going on in the life of my daughter. I'm so thankful for a safe place for Lauren to share her struggles with Godly adults who love her. Within these relationships she can doubt, cry, complain and struggle. I TRUST THEM to provide great Godly wisdom.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A voice of reinforcement -</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Obviously I'm not privy to conversations with my daughter and her adult leaders, however, I do know them well enough to know they point her to Biblical truth and wisdom. You know how it is, as a parent your kids think you no nothing, but when someone else speaks truth it all of a sudden makes sense. We've needed that over the years.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A foundation of prayer - </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I pray for my kids with frequency and fervency but what an incredible blessing to know other adults who are doing the same. God has answered those prayers and it makes a difference.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Consistent accountability - </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">All of us need to be pursued when we lose our way. I'm in accountability and need my fanny kicked every once in a while. (ok, maybe often) It's so comforting to know you're not the only adult saying hard things to your kids. God has used these conversations to protect my daughter.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Lauren has had and continues to have a constellation of adults speak into her life. Some of those adults have influenced a little from a distance and others are close with deep ongoing relationship. Whether a little or a lot, I'm so thankful for each of those encouraging voices.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you're a parent, help your kids develop deep relationship with other Godly adults. Take full advantage of your student ministry's small groups. Trust that God is in the middle of those relationships.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you're a youth pastor, work to make sure every student has opportunity for connection with trained / Godly adult leaders. You can't and shouldn't try to disciple every student in your youth group. But you should seek to see every student discipled.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">If you're a youth pastor and a parent? Rejoice in the truth that God has designed the Body to function this way. It truly does take a village.</span>David Granthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16372277231789419901noreply@blogger.com0